The
bodies of the three teenage girls
murdered by a fellow student at
Heath High School in West
Paducah, Ky., were not yet cold
before the students of the
Christian prayer group that was
shot at announced, "We
forgive you, Mike,"
referring to Michael Carneal, 14,
the murderer.
This
immediate and automatic
forgiveness is not surprising.
Over the past generation, the
idea that a central message of
Christianity is to forgive
everyone who commits evil against
anyone, no matter how great and
cruel and whether or not the
evildoer repents, has been
adopted by much of Christendom.
The
number of examples is almost as
large as the number of heinous
crimes. But one other recent
example stands out. In
August, the pastor at a Martha's
Vineyard church service attended
by the vacationing President
Clinton announced that it was the
the duty of all Christians to
forgive Timothy McVeigh, the
murderer of 168 Americans.
"I invite you to look at a
picture of Timothy McVeigh and
then forgive him," the Rev.
John Miller said in his sermon.
"I have, and I ask you to do
so."
The
pastor acknowledged:
"Considering what he did,
that may be a formidable
task. But it is the one
that we as Christians are asked
to do."
Though I
am a Jew, I believe that a
vibrant Christianity is essential
if America's moral decline is to
be reversed and that despite
theological differences, there is
indeed a Judeo-Christian value
system that has served as the
bedrock of American civilization.
For these reasons I am appalled
and frightened by this feel-good
doctrine of automatic
forgiveness.
This
doctrine undermines the moral
foundations of American
civilization because it advances
the amoral notion that no matter
how much you hurt other people,
millions of your fellow citizens
will immediately forgive you.
This doctrine destroys
Christianity's central moral
tenets about forgiveness - that
forgiveness, even by God, is
contingent on the sinner
repenting, and that it can only
be given to the sinner by the one
against whom he sinned.
These
tenets are unambiguously affirmed
in Luke 17:3-4: "And if your
brother sins against you, rebuke
him; and if he repents, forgive
him. And if seven times of the
day he sins against you, and
seven times of the day turns to
you saying, I repent, you shall
forgive him."
This
flies in the face of what passes
for Christianity these days - the
declaration, often repeated, that
"It is the Christian's duty
to forgive just as Jesus forgave
those who crucified him." Of
course, Jesus asked God to
forgive those who crucified him.
But Jesus never asked God to
forgive those who had crucified
thousands of other innocent
people - presumably because he
recognized that no one has the
moral right to forgive evil done
to others.
You and
I have no right, religiously or
morally, to forgive Timothy
McVeigh or Michael Carneal; only
those they sinned against have
that right - and those they
murdered are dead and therefore
cannot forgive them. (Indeed,
that is why I believe that humans
cannot forgive a murderer.)
If we are automatically forgiven
no matter what we do - even if we
do not repent, why repent? In
fact, if we forgive everybody for
all the evil they do to anybody,
God and his forgiveness are
entirely unnecessary. Those who
forgive all evil done to others
have substituted themselves for
God.
When
confronted with such arguments,
some callers to my radio show
offered another defense:
"The students were not
forgiving Carneal for murdering
the three students," these
callers argued, "they were
forgiving him for the pain he
caused them." Let us
summarize this argument: You
murder my classmates, and the
next day I announce that I
forgive you for the pain you
caused me! That such
self-centered thinking
masquerades as a religious ideal
is a good example of the moral
disarray in much of religious
life.
Some
people have a more sophisticated
defense of the
forgive-everyone-everything
doctrine: Victims should be
encouraged to forgive all evil
done to them because doing so is
psychologically healthy. It
brings "closure." This,
too, is selfishness masquerading
as idealism: "Though you do
not deserve to be forgiven, and
though you may not even be sorry,
I forgive you because I want to
feel better."
The rise
of the theology of automatic
"forgiveness" is only
one more sign of the decline of
traditional religiosity and
morality. As Yale Prof.
David Gelernter, who was severely
injured by the Unabomber, notes
in his thoughtful recent book,
"Drawing Life," the
1960's made making moral
judgments the greatest sin.
He points out that none of his
pre-1975 dictionaries contains
the word
"judgmental."
Today, judging evil is widely
considered worse than doing evil.
Until
West Paducah, I believed that
Christians will lead America's
moral renaissance. Though I still
believe that - many Christians
are repulsed by the
demoralization and dumbing down
of religion - the day those
students, with the support of
their school administration, hung
out that sign I became less
sanguine. If young Christians
have inherited more values from
the '60s culture than from their
religion, where can we look for
help?
Mr.
Prager, host of a daily radio
talk show in Los Angeles, is the
author of "Happiness is a
Serious Problem," from
Harper Collins.
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